Jewelry Beading Kit

Good jewelry for labia piercing?
I have two labia piercings, and I’m looking for something at a relatively thicker gauge (tens or eights) to wear.
I’m very wary of captives because I had the bead pop out of one and I ended up ripping my piercing, but they’re much easier to find in a style that I like in captives. If I get a captive, I need to be -sure- that this one won’t fail me – I walk quite a bit, so it needs to be able to withstand the constant friction of pants/underwear/legs. I’d also prefer to not have to invest in a ring opening kit, but, meh..
Any girls out there with piercings like mine? Or fellows? What do you wear, and what’s your advice?
hey as a guy, i use a cbr in my frenum,
and a circular barbell in my scrotum
American Girl Crafts Jewelry Making & Beading Kit